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Johnny Loves Vivian
By Don Mathis
Feb 26, 2024
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San Antonio, Texas -- In 1951, a teenaged airman from Brooks Air Force Base carved “Johnny Loves Vivian” into a wooden bench along the River Walk in San Antonio.

 

“We declared one river bench ‘our bench’ – it was more private than the others – where we spent hours sitting and talking, talking and kissing, and dreaming about the future,” Vivian Liberto wrote years later in her biography, I Walked the Line.

 

In her book, Vivian remembers what he told her. “This is our bench now,” Johnny said. “You have to promise to keep it up.” The Air Force sent Johnny to Germany soon afterwards but he never forgot the bench – and neither did she.

 

Johnny Cash in his Air Force days.

 

He was born “J.R. Cash” on Feb. 26, 1932, in Kingsland, Arkansas. But when he enlisted, the government insisted on a name, not initials. To the military, he was John; to Vivian, he was Johnny.

 

Vivian Liberto in Saint Mary's Catholic High School yearbook.
Vivian was born in 1934 to Thomas and Irene Robinson Liberto, whose extended Italian family in San Antonio is associated with Liberto Specialty and Ricos Products Co. Her uncle Sam Liberto started the first Spanish-language radio station in San Antonio.

Vivian was just 17 when she met Johnny at a roller-skating rink on St. Mary’s Street in San Antonio. Three weeks later, he was assigned to Landsberg, Germany, as a Morse Code operator. But instead of communicating with dots and dashes, the pair wrote hundreds of letters to each other.

 

Johnny mentioned the bench in many of his letters. In a missive dated Sep. 4, 1951, he asked, “Are you still going to keep our bench with the names on it? I hope you do. I can just see the people of SA, walking around with ‘Johnny Loves Vivian’ on the seat of their pants, but I don’t care who knows it.”

 

The bench inscribed "Johnny Loves Vivian."

 

There were thousands of pages of love letters by the time he returned to the States in 1954. They were married on August 7 that year at St. Ann Catholic Church in the Beacon Hill neighborhood of San Antonio. Her uncle Vincent Liberto conducted the ceremony.

 

Johnny and Vivian's wedding Aug. 7, 1954, St. Ann's Catholic Church in San Antonio.
The young couple moved to Memphis soon afterwards. Johnny got a job selling appliances and went to school to be a radio announcer. Vivian kept busy keeping house and making maternity clothes. She gave birth to their first daughter, Rosanne, in 1955.

Johnny took his background in gospel music to Sun Records, but Sam Phillips reportedly told him, “Go home and sin, then come back with a song I can sell.” Years later, Johnny denied Sam Phillips made that comment but he did claim he wrote his first hit, “Cry, Cry, Cry,” in 15 minutes. And Sun Records had a new star.

Record deals led to live performances. Rockabilly appearances and country concerts led to shows on the road. Vivian was worried all those wild women and the drinking in the late-night clubs might tempt her husband.

In her book, Vivian said Johnny told her not to worry – “I walk the line for you.” In 1956, around the time their second daughter (Kathy) was born, “
I Walk the Line,” reached Number One on the Billboard Charts.

But the night-life did take its toll on Johnny. Bennies, Reds, Blues, and Black Mollies  (benzedrine, barbiturates, pain killers, and amphetamine) were the drugs of choice for many rockabilly stars.

Augie Meyers, keyboard player in the Sir Douglas Quintet and later, the 
Texas Tornados, recalled a story that took place at Ray Liberto’s house (Vivian’s brother).


"Johnny came in and asked, ‘Anybody got any Reds?’" Augie said. "Doug Sahm replied, ‘Nah.’ Johnny responded, ‘What about any Blues? Any Black Mollies?’ Doug said, ‘No, man; but we’ve got some pot. You want to smoke a joint?’ ‘No way,’ J.R. said, ‘I don’t do drugs,’" Augie laughed.


Despite the love of a good woman and the adoration of four daughters, there were temptations in the music business more dangerous than the alcohol, the drugs, or the constant touring. The final blow to Johnny and Vivian’s marriage was June Carter, a former child star with the Carter Family.

Vivian and Johnny divorced in 1966, both remarried in 1968. Vivian wed Dick Distin, a police officer from Ventura, California. Two months later, Johnny married June, who met Johnny 13 years earlier at the Grand Ole Opry. Decades later, after the death of Carter in 2003, Vivian paid a visit to her first love.

 

“We sat and laughed about the old times,” she relates in her memoir. “We reminisced. We hugged and cried. We joked and teased each other. Looking back, that afternoon visit was a precious gift from God.”

 

Johnny died just weeks later in September 2003. In 2004, Vivian returned to San Antonio to visit old friends and family – and old haunts. She found the bench inscribed with the young lover’s declaration, “Johnny Loves Vivian,” near Omni La Mansion del Rio Hotel.


A Houston paper said Vivian asked San Antonio officials to let her have it. She offered to have a replica made; the City said no. Rumors circulated that she begged the City to allow her to have just the cedar plank with the carvings, promising to return it in her will after she died.

Instead, the City removed the bench from the River Walk and put it in storage for nine years. Too late for Vivian – she died in 2005. In 2013, the City gifted the bench to the Witte Museum. Besides its singular history as one of the artifacts of Johnny Cash’s connection to San Antonio, it is one of the original benches built during the River Walk’s construction.

In the 1930s, architect 
Robert H. H. Hugman not only designed the channel’s meandering sidewalks, one-of-a-kind stairways, arched bridges, and an amphitheater; he also designed the rustic cedar benches.

Feb. 26, 2024 would be Johnny Cash’s 92nd birthday. The next time you visit the River Walk, sit in one of the remaining benches there and think of the days when “Johnny Loves Vivian.”

 

Author Don Mathis stands in front of the bench with the carving, “Johnny Loves Vivian.”